Most of the intelligent folks out there must have understood what I am trying to point at but most of the even more intelligent people would be wondering what exactly I mean by this title. There is no need to race your mind's horses since I have already done this work so much so that my horses fractured their legs and filhaal are on a 2-month bed rest as recommended by their doctor!
Anyway, coming back to life mein kabhi kabhi.... Life mein Kabhi Kabhi things don't work out the way you expected them to be. There is nothing more frustrating than to see something being taken away from you just when you are about to have it. The thought that you have been gardening your dreams and someone else is going to live them is enough to make you freak out. It is like when your dream man (in my case it is none other that SRK) is just about to propose you and you are looking at him with those dark and sensuous eyes with a feeling that all the species of butterflies are adding colours to your stomach... And you feel that all your organs have stopped functioning for a moment but still your mind functions perfectly and you frame all the possible lovey-dovey replies you will shower him with. And amidst all this romance you suddenly realize a loud voice calling your name, you try so hard to ignore it till it grows louder to a point when you can't ignore it. You emerge out of your romantic slumber only to know that you were just dreaming, perhaps the most beautiful dream ever which ended by a loud piercing voice. Likewise, is the feeling when you have seen all the beautiful dreams and lived them in your head over a thousand times and just when everything seems so perfect, your dreams break like fine crystal on the floor with a piercing sound (A sound best to depict a heartbreak!). You feel so shattered, cheated and your world seems to fall apart. The mind becomes so criminal that you just want to set the whole galaxy on fire (including the Sun!). Suddenly you find each and every person happier than you even the roadside beggar! Feelings filled with jealousy and hatred for every such person is one of the few complimentary things you get with the whole 'Heartache' package of pain, tears and suffering. And then finally you question the almighty...Why ME ?!! God, Why ME ??!! God perhaps smiles and says, 'Seek your answer not outside but within'.
You might have faced all the emotional turmoil and suffered all kinds of crying bouts but a day comes when everything seems to be normal again. A day when you realize that everything is now just a part of your 'past'. You may never forget it but you have learnt to accept it. This acceptance gives you the immense strength to move forward in life. The memories of the past don't become haunting ghosts instead they become beautiful feelings which hide in the deepest corners of your heart. Time and again when you are sitting all alone thinking about your self and your journey, you open the darkest and the most secret doors of your heart to resort back to those memories and trust me...they will never pull you down but will always give you a push to face life with much more confidence and love. You might find a tear rolling down your cheek but it will be a symbol of that remarkable road which you have travelled so far and not the pain you once felt.
Life mein Kabhi Kabhi when you face such situations when you seem to be going through a 'psychological cardiac arrest' just give yourself a moment to think with a sane and rational frame of mind that is the situation bigger than this beautiful thing called life? Will the consequences will be as bad as you think they are? Can you still do something to avoid the situation? Do you have the guts to give life the blunt answer that it can't play games on you and keep you away from the thing you truly desire. If yes, then get up and fight back. This
write up is certainly not for you! But if you have given your best try or feel that you have no role to play in what is happening in your life, then just remember that every hurdle in your life makes you a better and polished person. Crossing every hurdle, dealing with every single pressurising situation gives you more courage and ultimately makes you a stronger person. Life mein kabhi kabhi ... Nah! Always ... Follow your heart! It's your best guide!
Anyway, coming back to life mein kabhi kabhi.... Life mein Kabhi Kabhi things don't work out the way you expected them to be. There is nothing more frustrating than to see something being taken away from you just when you are about to have it. The thought that you have been gardening your dreams and someone else is going to live them is enough to make you freak out. It is like when your dream man (in my case it is none other that SRK) is just about to propose you and you are looking at him with those dark and sensuous eyes with a feeling that all the species of butterflies are adding colours to your stomach... And you feel that all your organs have stopped functioning for a moment but still your mind functions perfectly and you frame all the possible lovey-dovey replies you will shower him with. And amidst all this romance you suddenly realize a loud voice calling your name, you try so hard to ignore it till it grows louder to a point when you can't ignore it. You emerge out of your romantic slumber only to know that you were just dreaming, perhaps the most beautiful dream ever which ended by a loud piercing voice. Likewise, is the feeling when you have seen all the beautiful dreams and lived them in your head over a thousand times and just when everything seems so perfect, your dreams break like fine crystal on the floor with a piercing sound (A sound best to depict a heartbreak!). You feel so shattered, cheated and your world seems to fall apart. The mind becomes so criminal that you just want to set the whole galaxy on fire (including the Sun!). Suddenly you find each and every person happier than you even the roadside beggar! Feelings filled with jealousy and hatred for every such person is one of the few complimentary things you get with the whole 'Heartache' package of pain, tears and suffering. And then finally you question the almighty...Why ME ?!! God, Why ME ??!! God perhaps smiles and says, 'Seek your answer not outside but within'.
You might have faced all the emotional turmoil and suffered all kinds of crying bouts but a day comes when everything seems to be normal again. A day when you realize that everything is now just a part of your 'past'. You may never forget it but you have learnt to accept it. This acceptance gives you the immense strength to move forward in life. The memories of the past don't become haunting ghosts instead they become beautiful feelings which hide in the deepest corners of your heart. Time and again when you are sitting all alone thinking about your self and your journey, you open the darkest and the most secret doors of your heart to resort back to those memories and trust me...they will never pull you down but will always give you a push to face life with much more confidence and love. You might find a tear rolling down your cheek but it will be a symbol of that remarkable road which you have travelled so far and not the pain you once felt.
Life mein Kabhi Kabhi when you face such situations when you seem to be going through a 'psychological cardiac arrest' just give yourself a moment to think with a sane and rational frame of mind that is the situation bigger than this beautiful thing called life? Will the consequences will be as bad as you think they are? Can you still do something to avoid the situation? Do you have the guts to give life the blunt answer that it can't play games on you and keep you away from the thing you truly desire. If yes, then get up and fight back. This
write up is certainly not for you! But if you have given your best try or feel that you have no role to play in what is happening in your life, then just remember that every hurdle in your life makes you a better and polished person. Crossing every hurdle, dealing with every single pressurising situation gives you more courage and ultimately makes you a stronger person. Life mein kabhi kabhi ... Nah! Always ... Follow your heart! It's your best guide!
