There is a lot
of negative air around entrepreneurs and relationships. It is considered that
dating an entrepreneur is like dating a ‘zombie’. Let me tell you that they
have goals, emotions, needs etc. like all of us and they are in no way any less
of a human. Their mindsets to look at various aspects of life from a unique
perspective, and a pressing desire to bring about a positive change in the
world set them apart from others.
Following are
the points which explain why I feel that it is absolutely incredible to be in
love with an entrepreneur:
1.
Flatter
you with Innovative Love Strategies: If you’re the kind of woman who is not
simply flattered by materialistic gifts, he is the guy for you. He would use
all his groundbreaking ideas to direct happiness your way, even if that means
going out of the way. By the way, you can expect him in your balcony at 2 am
for a surprise ‘I love you’!
2.
Amaze you
with his Memory: If you are in love with an entrepreneur, you would never crib
about spoiled anniversaries (due to forgetfulness) because when it comes to
remembering days and dates, he would give you a tough competition! He would
vividly remember the first I love you, the first kiss, the first (and last) of
everything, and all your conversations and moments. If your memory is not as
strong, it’s never too late to start eating almonds and marking special dates
on the calendar!
3.
Congratulations!
You just found a Santa: Since entrepreneurs are the people who love to take
up challenges, he would do anything to fulfill your crazy demands. No matter
how stupid, bizarre or unbelievable your wishes are, assume that they are
fulfilled. He will be your personal Santa! Ho Ho Ho!
4.
Push you
hard to strive for excellence: They believe in giving more than their 100%.
Once he has strong feelings for you, he would constantly motivate you to attain
your maximum potential. Don’t misinterpret that he wants to change you or you
are not enough for him. It is far from truth. You are already much more than
what he ever imagined. It is just his way of showing his love and care for you.
He truly wants you to live a life of your dreams. Seeing you suffer in life
would be a reminder of his own struggle. Just believe in his belief in you and
proceed ahead to grow together. Remember not to worry while pursuing your
dreams, as he will always stand behind you to catch you if you fall.
5.
Drama
free relationship: It’s time to ditch your ‘drama queen’ image as your
entrepreneur guy would not have time for unnecessary drama and disputes. He
would want to make the best of every second as he knows the value of time.
Every moment spent with him would be special. His sincerity and
straightforwardness would be something, you will admire all your life.
6.
Know you
better than anyone else: Don’t be surprised if you feel extraordinarily
attached to him quite early. His profession demands him to study humans to the
core otherwise his business would fall flat. He would spend time in studying
every fine detail of your beautiful mind. You will be astonished as, with time,
he would know you better than you know yourself. Be careful, as he soon may
start reading your mind too!
7.
You
become a part of their experiential world: By default, entrepreneurs are
amazing storytellers. He would have innumerable stories to share with you from
his overabundant experiences. Expecting random talks and gossips from him would
be an indicator of your naivety. He would talk pure sense. You will simply admire
his intellect. You can just sit all day and listen to him talk. With him, your
time will fly on a jet!
8.
Never Give
Up on You: He is likely to stand by you even in your nastiest phases as he
has already handled lot of things at his worst. He has traveled a hard way to
reach where he is, even harder than what he might have initially imagined. He
will stick by you even if that would mean fighting the entire world. And for
that you will love your ‘knight in shining armor’ even more!
9.
Your love
is likely to last: An entrepreneur would do anything to sustain what he
loves, whether it is his work or his relationship. Once they start something,
they are likely to fulfill it. This will most likely be the deepest
relationship of your life. They enjoy depths in every aspect of their lives
including their relationships. The deeper you dive with him, the richer your
bond will be. He will strive hard to balance everything, sometimes even beyond
what he can handle. You can just relax as he will step forward and make
everything work!
Before rushing to pick up your phone to call that entrepreneur guy (you like), make sure to contemplate on the last point:
10. Are you the one for him? : Before
rushing in a relationship with an entrepreneur, understand that for him it’s
not just work. Every move he makes impacts REAL LIFE HUMAN BEINGS. His dreams
are way bigger than what he is doing today. Most of the times his work would be
his priority and shouldn’t it be as it is no longer about him? It is impacting
thousands of humans out there. The work pattern in his life would be like a
pendulum swinging between working less to being totally consumed in work. If
you can’t accept and appreciate his work, or if you want constant attention
from your guy; then you are surely not the one for him!
Most of the times his mind would be struggling with self-doubts, concerns
about the kind of work he is doing and its consequences. Instead of reaffirming
them, make sure to encourage and support him. He has struggled a long way
alone. Now it’s time for him to have a loving companion by his side!
This article is also published at Women's Web: http://www.womensweb.in/2015/06/10-reasons-fall-love-entrepreneur/
